Saturday, September 12, 2009

Sad


My beloved son passed away on Monday September 7th 2009. I was not sure if I could or should or would share this, but I decided to. He leaves behind his beautiful daughter, my precious granddaughter Leevi. He will be immensely missed by all. I know my life will never be the same. He was a very special man to all who knew him. If he met you, you would be his friend. He genuinely liked people and was loved by all who met him. Outgoing caring and fun. Please pray for us all.
Hugs and Blessings
Becky

40 comments:

  1. Know that we are sharing in your sorrow and lifting you up in prayer. May you feel God's comfort and grace all around you.

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  2. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. ((((hugs)))) May God give you strength and support.

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  3. I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God's peace will surround you during this difficult time and that you will feel the comfort that only He can give. My prayers are with you.

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  4. There is nothing one can say that will make this any better, but know that all mothers grieve with you as the fear of losing them is always a terrifying little fear we all carry from the time we give birth to our children. Please take care of yourself and know you are surrounded by love.

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  5. I'm so sorry to hear about your son. Kick and scream, by all means, if it helps.

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  6. I am so sorry for your loss. My family will be keeping you and yours in our prayers.

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  7. Dear Becky, I am so sorry to hear that you lost your son. I lost my son in 2003, so I know the pain that you carry. I will be praying for you and your family. Stay close to God, it's the only way I made it through. Bless you so much and thank you for sharing.

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  8. I am soooo sorry for your lose! I dont know what I would do in your place. Hang in there and try to be strong for your grand baby.

    She really needs you now.

    Bless you
    Shannon

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  9. Oh my gosh I'm so sad for you reading your post my heart breaks for you I feel the same way about my son and just can't even imagine
    losing him.. I pray God gives you some comfort in yours days ahead
    and that your memories of him will
    be with you in your mind and heart everyday.. tender hugs

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  10. My heart felt sympathies go to you and your family at this terribly sad time. I cannot phathom the grief you are going through and all I can say is time will slowly ease your pain but if shouting and screaming gets you through everything then this is what you should do.
    jane

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  11. Oh Becky, I am so sorry about the loss of your son. My heart goes out to you, your family, and that beautiful little girl of his. (and she looks so very much like her handsome daddy) I will certainly keep you and your family in my prayers for the strength to carry on. God Bless & God Speed....

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  12. My english is not that good, but i do want to say i'm very sorry for your loss, i want to send you my condolences, and a big hug trough the screen.

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  13. My thoughts are with you. May god give you the strength to pass through this!

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  14. Becky, I am so damn sorry hunnie...
    I'm here if you need a shoulder or a hug or whatever.
    You and yours are in my prayers.

    Pixie

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  15. Becky, I am so sorry about your loss, I can't even begin to imagine what your going through, but do know that myself and my family are thinking of you, and sending big hugs across the miles.

    Kick, scream, yell, punch, do it all if will help you...

    I'm sorry hun...

    Love Lou

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  16. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

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  17. I am so very sorry Becky for your tragic loss. Nothing I can say can make this easier for you. But try and take some comfort from the fact he was so very well loved. I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling but as a Mother I know it will be immense. My thoughts are with you hun and if it helps even a little bit to kick and scream then do it.
    Ishona x

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  18. Dear Becky - there are just no words to express our sorrow for the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
    Hugs
    Sherlylynn

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  19. So sorry to hear of your terribly tragic loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. I can only reiterate Athenas' words.
    Take care.

    Sue P.

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  20. Dear Becky,
    I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family through this sad time.
    God Bless you all.
    Butterflyiii2006

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  21. I'm so sorry to hear of the death of your son. May you be comforted by the prayers of those who care about you. I pray for his family, friends, and loved ones.

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  22. I started to cry the moment I read your post. For you, your family, your son and all those who love him. - I Have two sons, one in the Marines and I cant bear the thought of something happening non the less to live through it. I am so sorry for your loss.I wish there was something we all could do to help ease your pain. Hugs, Nancy

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  23. I am sooo sorry and my heart hurts for you!!

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  24. So many of us here are mothers. You are living our greatest fear, that of losing a child. My heart breaks for you and your family. May you find some comfort in knowing so many care and are praying.

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  25. Sweet Heart you and your family are in my thought's threw this very very hard sad time :o(
    All my love + prayers .
    Huggz
    Jo xx

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  26. Oh Becky, I am so sorry sweetie. I will be keeping you and your family in our prayers. If you need a shoulder, I am here for you honey..I pray that the angels will send comfort in your time of need..xoxo K

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  27. I am soooo sorry for your loss. keep your memories close as it will get you through the bad times and keep God close to help heal your wounded heart.

    You and your family are in my preayers.
    Linda

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  28. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved son. My goodness I can only imagine the agony you must be feeling. I have 2 boys of my own. However, the picture of your son and grand daughter is just so precious. What a great pic of those 2 together. God Bless you and your family during this most difficult time of your life. Know we are praying for you all. Hugs - Luvs....xoxoxo!! (terri - hawaii)

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  29. God bless and comfort you in this loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  30. Oh, Becky...I am so sorry to hear this. That is truly sad to hear.

    My thoughts & prayers are with you, your beautiful granddaughter and the rest of your family.

    Love,
    --Liv--

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  31. Oh Becky
    I just saw your message.
    I can't believe it.
    I m so sad for you and your family..
    There are no words to help you and I m so sad.

    All my thoughts to you, your little daugther and her mother.

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  32. Dearest Friend,

    I stumbled upon your blog through another site and my heart broke for you and your family as I read your message.

    I have lost a couple friends in the past years, and to see their parents go through the pain of loosing a child - it is truly tragic. Becky, I am so sorry you must go endure the loss of your child. There are truly no words to comfort you or ease the pain.

    Your son sounded amazing, and I pray you will take comfort that he is in paradise, in our Lord's presence! He is in no pain, he is not suffering. "The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; may the name of the LORD be praised." Job 1:21.

    I pray that the Lord will surround you and your family with his loving grace and comfort.

    Danni
    from brea, california.

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  33. I was so sad to hear about your son. You are in my prayers.

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  34. My prayers are going up for you and your family.

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  35. i am so sorry. really i hurt for you. sorry

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  36. Why?
    That's what we ask.
    The truth is,
    we may never
    be able to know
    for sure why.

    But we do know
    that there is no single
    "should have done"
    or "could have done"
    or "did" or didn't do"
    that would have changed that why.

    All that love could do
    was done.



    Do what you must and grieve as you must... but remember to celebrate a beautiful life and the laugher in it too.

    With love ans care....

    Pam

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  37. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.My heart goes out to you.
    my prayers will be with you.

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  38. I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I knew what to say... He was a handsome man and you have a beautiful granddaughter!

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  39. Like many said before me....there are few words to help you thru this difficult time. All I can say...lean on your family and friends right now...let them help you to be strong and to get past this because we all know the day will come when you will feel that "alone" feeling. My heart goes out to you....big hugs

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  40. Dear Becky,
    I am very sorry to hear of your loss, I can't imagine the pain you must be experiencing. Hang in there, some day instead of pain you will smile remembering the wonderful moments you shared together.
    *hugs*

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